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writes:Well there's this girl, I've known her my whole life. Her brother and I are best friends. I'm in love with this girl. I see her every weekend when I stay the night at her grandma's house. I'm 16 and she's 13. A couple of summers ago I told her that I was in love with her and it made things complicated for about 2 years. Things are just now getting on track again. You see when she knew that I was in love with her she would barely let me touch her. Now she's not afraid to hug me or anything. As far as she knows, I've moved on. I've had about 3 girlfriends in the past 2 years and one of them was really serious. I guess this is why she thinks I've moved on. The thing is that I'm just not sure if should tell her that I still like her or if i should let things be. My time to tell her is limited because I'm setting her up with one of my friends from school. I'm doing this because I want her to be happy no matter what. But I'm not sure if I should just tell her that I love her or not. I mean I've went over it a million times. She has matured since the last time so I think she would take it a lot better. Also there would be some weirdness in our families if things worked out with us. You see I know her parents, she knows my parents. The really weird thing is that my mom was married to her dad before we were born. They had a daughter which is my half sister. Then they got a divorce and her parents had her and her brother, so my half sister is also her half sister. We have the same sister but were not related in any way at all. I'm sick of people saying that we're cousins because we're not. We have none of the same blood. But even if I found out now that we were related it probably wouldn't make a difference to me. Any advice is greatly appreciated.
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reader, Trans Am Man +, writes (26 January 2010):
Trans Am Man is verified as being by the original poster of the question she was 12 not 11 and i didn't mean touch her in a sexual way
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2010): she was 11 and you were 14 (in high school probably) when you told her you loved her? and you say "when she knew that I was in love with her she would barely let me touch her." SHE WAS 11!. and your parents were married and had a kid. still not weird enough?? "But even if I found out now that we were related it probably wouldn't make a difference to me." Mr you have serious problems lay off of her.. if your parents ever found out they'd think you're sick too.
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