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writes: I'm so panicked now... When I read this posts ,it looks like there is an epidemic, of marriage goes bad almost like scheduled ,for 20 -25 years. I keep reading about husbands ,who goes off sex, and losing attraction,or just simple luck of love. Me and my husband are on the same boat. I mean a few years ago,he gone off sex, and all he does is work... Like this is the only thing what motivates him... What is the truth? Do man ,always losing attraction ,when wife aging? What is going on with them//? I don't really care about situations right now, when new relationship ,after divorce.. But can people stay in passionate love and have good sex even to their old age like 60 an up? Not with new woman ,but the same? I feel I really need to know what is going on, because here in my marriage things are not too hot right now. And I don;t know ,if it is the end of passion, or it is just a phase? Please ,help me out here...
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2010): I would think that if you take your husband for granted and only puts out when he wants it (not saying you are like that) than I would think you should expects some problems. I'm amazed at the number of wives who have marital problems and never want sex and they can't figure out where things went wrong.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (26 January 2010):
You are on a site that deals with people who have relationship problems. Of course you are going to see an "epidemic" of questions about husbands and wives going off each other.
If you went to a site about skin problems then you would see an "epidemic" of people with acne.
I would say we have never had someone here who says "my husband is wonderful and still loves me as he did when he was 19. How do I cope!!!??"
People with good marriages don't post on dearcupid that doesn't mean they aren't all out there. This is not a cross section of society.
Good Luck!! xx
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