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He just wants to be friends and free to flirt

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Question - (23 January 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 January 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *aytie-babey writes:

Well.. I firstly want to thank anyone who replys to this it means a lot to me.

I am in love with a boy (lets call him T) I have been since August last year. Me and T dated a lot like not as boyfriend and girlfriend but it was dates as we kissed and things. Then I made a relationship with T after a while of dating, but he ended it with me because he wanted 'to be a flirt' I still love him and haven't stopped since he ended it, and I have told him I still love him but he says he wants to be nothing more than friends.

But we spoke again properly tonight and he was reminiscing all of our memorys with me, and it killed me inside, so I think he could still love me to but I'm not sure because he said nothing more than friends :/ Please help me out.

Kaytie. xxx

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A female reader, ohbabycakesxx United States +, writes (23 January 2010):

Right now, I think he's too into flirting and other girls. It's obvious. If he says he doesn't want to be anything more than friends, I think he means it. Otherwise, when you had the chance to go out with you, and if he really liked you, he would have stuck with you. Maybe give him some time to grow out of that state, but a lot of young guys like to flirt because, hello, there are a lot of other pretty girls out there too. Give him some time, but if he continues telling you things like that, then just forget about him. Go find someone who can stay in a relationship.

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A male reader, conswalo wasabi United Kingdom +, writes (23 January 2010):

there is a way of getting him back. You're not going to like it but i'm positive it will work. Tell him you want an open relationship. You want to flirt and kiss him but other people too and he can do the same. DRAW A LINE at sex that is to say tell him he can flirt nad kiss other people but no sex unless its just him and you. You may not be comfatable at first but you could get used to it.

Course the other option is to completely cut him out of your life otherwise you'll always be thinking about him. and it'll drive you made i know

Please let me know how it goes

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