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writes:Okay so my boyfriend just asked me if i would let him figure me. i said yes cause i really want to get sexual with him. We have been going out for 2 months on the 24th and I am just wondering if we are going to fast? I don't want to rush things, but i really love him... I'm not sure if i made a mistake saying yes or if i did the right thing? Help!!!~11/24/09 Reply to this Question
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reader, Evol Angel +, writes (26 January 2010):
 have you ever heard the song fifteen by Taylor swift? if not... you should.
You don't know what love is at that age. You need to learn who YOU are before you learn what love is.
hunni, you need to slow it down.
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reader, Miss King !  +, writes (23 January 2010):
 If you're already having second thoughts about your decision to say yes, its a sign you're probably not ready. When you first start seeing someone, its easy to get carried away with your feelings and go too far sexually, you don't want to do something you will regret.
I would wait until you are 1000000% certain that you want to do it before you make decisions. If you're boyfriend is disapointed that you have changed your mind then he's not someone you need around you. Don't ever feel you need to say yes to something to impress anyone or to make anyone else happy. It's your body!! People will have to wait for you :) Good luck, x x
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reader, Evol Angel +, writes (23 January 2010):
BE CAREFUL! you need to take things slow. you are still young, you have all the time in the WORLD to get into a sexual relationship with a partner. You said it yourself, you dont want to rush things. I think personally 2 months is rushing things. I wasn't sexual with my boyfriend until we had been dating over a year. SLOW down and enjoy being a kid. You have plenty of time ahead of you to be an adult.
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reader, Chanelle.x +, writes (23 January 2010):
2 months is very soon. Are you absolutely sure. At a young age there are temptations [i should know:S] but it doesnt mean you are ready. How old are you 13-15 boy shouldnt be asking about fingerin' boys have asked me there perve. Also do you think hes the one- or just want sex because after you might regret. Whatever you do is honestly up to you but dont let him take advantage and stay safe. Good Luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2010): Its no secret hun!
If your feeling uncomfortable, stop and let him know as its not about moving too soon its about how your feeling. If he gets upset with it, then you can kiss him buh bye. if he doesnt get upset, youll probably feel reassured in your choice to be with him and sexual things will start coming more natural to you and your feelings will change for the better
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