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We've been dating for about two months but now I don't even find her attractive anymore

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Question - (23 January 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 23 January 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Some background info to start out:

-We're both in high school

-This relationship is both our 1st relationship with anyone

-We've been dating for about 2 months, and we've known each other for about 5 or so.

-We see each other everyday at school and hang out almost every weekend

From when I first started dating her till like a couple days ago, I was really into to her and found her really attractive. Once or twice I had feelings like I was losing interest but usually they disappeared after a day and I went on. However, lately I've been finding myself thinking about her less and less, and I don't even find her attractive anymore.

So what do I do? Is this just a phase that I have to work through? Is the only reason I liked her in the first place because I liked the thought of being in a relationship (seeing as I never was really in one before)?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2010):

O.P. here

First off, thanks for your response. I'm not sure what to do yet, but if i did break up it's just gonna be so hard to do. I mean just a couple weeks ago i thought she was gorgeous and now, she's just another girl. Also i don't wanna blind side her with a break up out of nowhere and make it that much worse.

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