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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:dear sir/madam i was just wondering why im so dry when me and my sex partner have sex and why is so hard for me to cum. can somebody please give a suggestion wat i can do bout my situation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2010): There are all kinds of lubes available. i see that you are from the usa, so your local Wal-Mart or Walgreens have these. KY-Jelly is a personal favorite and it comes in several different types. There are several reasons why you could be dry...it could be a lack of excitement...meaning you need more foreplay...or it could be a hormonal issue. It doesnt really matter, a lubricant is the answer. good luck, mal
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reader, bharat mehta  +, writes (23 January 2010):
 Reason for dryness is same, as in male for non-erection. Mostly reason lay in psychology, and not in body. Bad psychology lay in orthodox brought up, lack of privacy and private activity like masturbation, with fantasy. Normally all most all boy and girl do sexual activity in their privacy. That, create some sort of longing for some one to love and to be loved by some one. No matter there may be no clear picture of partner, or even ideas of partner,but they lay as implication.
So, do some sexual activity, like self-touching,which may not be categorized as masturbation, but tender and pleasing touch do some magic. Later do more foreplay with your partner like kissing, hugging, touching to massage, licking to sucking etc, without any effort to go for intercourse. Make firm decision, no intercourse for some period of time. Such negative decision will work as a block, as a resistance, and mind will begin to want and body will learn to response mind's wanting.
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reader, veronika  +, writes (23 January 2010):
 Do you do foreplay?
Some women are just dryer than usual, that could probably be for a number of reasons. Perhaps discuss the dryness issue with a gynecologist or doctor?
In the meanwhile, you could try using lube when you have sex so you aren't completely dry.
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reader, Sal84 +, writes (23 January 2010):
 Both you and your partner should concentrate more on foreplay. The longer the foreplay, the better the chances of you getting wet. Remember the mind controls all your acts....so feel it in your mind before you make your body work:-)
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reader, Honest Answer +, writes (23 January 2010):
 The dryness could be a result of little on no foreplay. When a woman is stimulated, she releases natural lubricants. The more stimulated you get, the more lubricants are released.
If the problem isn't foreplay related, try an over the counter lubricant like KY Jelly. It sold in the condom area. JY Jelly is a good lubricant that won't damage a condom.
I hope this helps.
Good Luck!
Jeff
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