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writes:Hey, im 14 years old.And i dont think i look right down there. But my boyfriend says i look great.?Should i beleve him?Do you have to shave before sex?Also could you please tell me how to give oral sex?Thanks heaps :)xx
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reader, 738  +, writes (2 February 2010):
Hi i am also 14.maybe this will help? i have never gave oral before but i know alot about it and i cant go into details cuz its propably unappropriate but you can look it up just type in your question about it on the web and it will refer you to a bunch of sites on the topic and btw everyone looks a little different down there all guys are different and your guy likes the way you are so dont stress about it
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2010): At 14, you are not even fully grown. The only person exploring your body right now should be you. Not some boy.
You are too old to play doctor and too young to have a boyfriend who goes beyond kissing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2010): now girl come on, please dont tell me that he his pressuring you for sex?
and you say you are 14 year old, ok so girls are more mature than years ago. i advice you not to do it unless you are really ready to, you should only have sex when you feel you are ready and not just to please him. i hope he hasnt said if you love him you would do it? and how old is your boyfriend? do not let him pressure you, it will not make him like you anymore than he does.please think about it and if he likes you that much he will respect your wishes if you are not ready.
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reader, Illithid +, writes (23 January 2010):
 Every woman looks different down there, sometimes very different. That's normal and it's going to be up to your partner whether he likes it. No doubt some will love it and some won't. If he says he likes how you looks, trust him.
As for shaving, that's up to you. Do you want to shave? You don't have to, so do what makes you feel comfortable. And if he ever complains, kindly remind him that he doesn't have to have sex with you if he doesn't like your choice. :)
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reader, Red Green 0289 +, writes (23 January 2010):
Sounds as if you have normal concerns about being 'normal'... we'll let me assure you that the first normal is fine- we ALL have had concerns about how we measure up, compared to others. The second 'normal' simply doesn't exist- when it comes to our bodies we're all unique. Everyone is slightly different, and the idealized perfect man or woman simply doesn't exist in reality. (I can tell you from personal experience that the kids we all thought were normal, were in some of the most pain growing up, they just hid it well for a few years).
So, please relax about the appearance of your body- each women is built different, all are beautiful.
It sounds like your guy loves how you look, and is likely very happy with your appearance - and it sounds as if he likes you for who you are, and probably wishes that you have as such self-confidence as he has confidence in you. We guys can find it a chore when the women we love don't see themselves as beautiful as we do.
As for shaving, no- that's totally up to you. You can shave part, all or none...
As for oral sex, there are many sites that give advice on this. Seek those out, read up and practice. He needs to learn how to receive it, and you give it. You need to teach each other what feels good, and learn to verbally communicate that. Sex is about sharing, not just your body, but thoughts, dreams and emotions. That's why you need to make sure that the two of you are ready, AND you need to full understand how to prevent disease and babies.
Betty Dodson published a book of illistrations of various womans vulvas - hers's a link:
http://dodsonandross.com/sexfeature/vulva-drawings-sex-one
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