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*iss Karma Louise
writes:hi there.i am a very girly girl i love to take care of my appearance and love make up and doing my hair.however i catch myself looking at GIRLS and fantasize of how they would be in bed.i am really attracted to the "tomboy" kind of lesbian and i really would love to have a sexual encounter with one.i often say that i think random girls are gorgeous but my friends just think im just messing about when im for real..BUT i also find boys attractive but ive heard thats lesbians hate bisexuals.i have caught eye contact with many tomboy lesbians..and the thought of them just blows my mind..am i bisexual or just fancy a tumble with a lesbian? ( i am still a virgin ).
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reader, Shawn V.  +, writes (7 February 2010):
 Well firstly sexuality is something that is fluid and no one is really ever %100 gay or straight. It's common for women to find other women physically attractive. Many straight women do. The difference is whether you could find yourself being serious with a female and hold an emotional connection otherwise your just a woman that finds other women attractive.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2010): It can take someone a long time to work out what you are. I have many friends and work mates who have been through similar experiences. At this point, you may just be bicurious and as you put it 'fancy a tumble around with a lesbian'. There's also a vast difference between physical attraction an emotional connection. My advice is not to rush into trying something for the sake of it, unless you're absolutely sure. It may be worth waiting to see if you meet someone you can have a relationship on an emotional level than physical.
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reader, Michellez  +, writes (23 January 2010):
Wow--i felt like i'm reading my own post.
I'm also still a virgin .
I'm also a girly girl. And i ALSO think of girls the same way that you do AND am super attracted to the tomboyish girls. And i'm attracted to guys.
I don't know if i'll be much help to you since i'm asking myself the same questions.
I do want a "traditional" relationship and that's harder to find with girls which makes me look for a guy to be my boyfriend rather than a girl. But as far as the attraction level i really don't know which sexe i prefer. I guess only time will tell ( i'm speaking for the two of us:P)
and we'll have to judge later on...
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reader, Risingfromashes +, writes (23 January 2010):
Still a virgin, that's probably a good thing I wish I held onto my v-card longer just to keep it special. Lesbians don't hate bi-girls! Some gays don't trust bi-sexuals because it looks like you can't make up your mind- they are afraid of being toyed with. Others may want to mess around anyways or may even look past that for a relationship! But you aren't truly bi unless you're willing to have a relationship with either sex. I just don't think experimenting sexually should count. But it's nice to have an open mind, and yes women tend to be more attractive lol! I've experimented but they were never serious when I tried to be, besides I want a traditional family one day! Most straight guys are iffy about it too because they feel like that's something they will never be able to quench your thirst of. But the right person will except you whether you are gay or bi or straight. I really think you'll know though one way or the other after you have a few relationships. Don't be afraid to experiment to make sure though, and I mean relationship-wise mainly. Obviously be ultra-selective about whomever you decide to *hook up* with. Take care!
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