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writes:Okay I know it sounds weird, but I have no other option. I like a guy that I have rejected about 2 times because I was scared to be in a relationship. I wanted to be, but i couldn't face it. He's told me he loves me, but I was to scared to adimt the same. And of corse hes dating another girl, I could try to go after him, or I could try and forget it and just be firends. But I've tried it once and it hasn't worked. So here's my question, Do I take him or leave him be? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2010): Its strange because I am in that exact same situation.I know exactly what you are going through.Im not sure if the woman he is seeing is actually his gf,i saw a text that said he had feelings for her though.We had an arguement about her and now he hardly ever txts me and wont talk to me face to face.I just really want to be his friend.
I think that in your situation if you can have him as a friend then you should and then if he still has feelings for you,it might work out one day.Good luck
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (23 January 2010):
You're too late. You only really want him now because you can't have him anyway. Let him go. He's moved on.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (23 January 2010):
Of course you want him now, it's because you can't have him! Just be friendly with him for now, don't try to go after him while he has a girlfriend, it only ends up making you look bad, especially because now he'll have the perfect opportunity to reject you. When he's single again and you're still interested, then yeah, it's worth a shot. But for now, let him be happy with the girl that didn't reject him.
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reader, ohbabycakesxx +, writes (23 January 2010):
Well you've rejected him twice. It's normal for him to go get another girlfriend because he thinks you don't like him at all. Human nature is to always want what you can't have. He has a girlfriend, of course that means he's off limits no matter what. The only thing you can do is wait it out and if he still likes you by the time him and his girlfriend breaks up, go for it. For now though, I think it's best you are just friends.
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