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*arlaalaa
writes:Right im in a relationship, and have known the guy for over a year so i know all his friends, in particular his closest friend. But this friend at first wasnt too sure about me and has gradually warmed up, but i found out that he gets jealous of me a few times. And as i dont want to come between my boyfriend and his best mate when im round their house as they live together (students) i try and include him in conversations. Im not a very public display of affection kind of girl so i dont have to worry about that. Yet he does make me uncomfotable and im not sure if i should not visit the house as often as i do which is a few times a week or i should just take it that his always going to be like this. SO any advice as to how i can deal with this would be grateful. And i know i should probably mention it to my boyfriend and i have commented one time that when his best mate went off in a sulk that it has made me uncomfotable so any other ways to broach the subject would be appreciated.
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reader, farlaalaa +, writes (22 February 2010):
farlaalaa is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the advice i took it and it sort of worked
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reader, Risingfromashes  +, writes (23 January 2010):
His best mate sounds very immature. You should talk with Him about it. Ask him why he seems to have a problem with you. He may not have a good answer but at least you tried. You can let him know you don't want any problems because you know they are such good friends and because you also love/ care about your boyfriend. Tell him it would mean a lot to you and probably your boyfriend if you two could get along since your both in your bfs life. Also, your bf should be talking with him about this on his own time. Best wishes.
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