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writes:i have this huge crush on my best friend and i really want to ask her out, the only problem is she knows i fancy her, what should i do?
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reader, problemmaganet  +, writes (24 January 2010):
 It's good that you are already friends. That's good cause it means very likely you will stay friends no matter what the outcome. Ask her out, just don't overdo it.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (23 January 2010):
 Well if she already knows you fancy her, then there's really nothing to lose anymore. Nothing would change except you'd know how SHE feels. Go for it!
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reader, HELPER(: +, writes (23 January 2010):
 ASK HER OUT!!! Theres really nothing bad that can happen the worst thing is she can say no but that wouldn't happen.
I mean I am currently dating a guy that was my best friend since the 4th grade and we have been going out for 2 years..Just do it you'll be happy with the out come.(:
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2010): ASK HER OUT!!!!! The worst thing that could happen is she says no.. But it never hurts to try.. I am currently dating a guy that has been my best friend since like the 4th grade and we have been dating for almost 2 years..So I am sure if you ask you'll have a great relationship.(:
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2010): If she knows who fancies you, then that shouldn't be a problem. She already knows you fancy her so whats to lose by asking her out?
Tell her you'd love to go out with her but understand if she wants to be just friends and not risk what you've got. Say that you know even if going out doesn't work out-you always want to be her mate!
You will only regret it if you never ask as you will always wonder what it would of been like, even worse-someone might beat you and ask her out instead.
If you are great friends then she won't be offended and whats the worse that will happen-she says no and you still get to be friends with her.
Good Luck :)
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (23 January 2010):
 Did you develop this crush before you met her or, you became her friend, then had this crush. If you did not ask her out earlier, she already assumed you did not have the guts and would stop thinking you are boyfriend material. The problem is not you fancying her, but that you let yourselves become best friends before pursuing her in a romantic way.
Still ask her out. If you don't, you would remain best friends.
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