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*eil61
writes:hi, I'm a 15 year old boy, I have this friend who's a beautiful girl with the most amazing personality. I think I love her but I'm too embarrassed to say anything to her because I have asked her out before and she said no. I now get very shy whenever I see her. I've been told I'm quite handsome but I don't believe it. I'm also quite lanky. she says I'm funny and to cheer me up once she even said Im hot. could you please help me to either move on or give me a chance with her?
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reader, neil61 +, writes (24 January 2010):
neil61 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks il try that and tell you how it goes :) I'm starting to speak to her a lot more as a friend and il try an be more confident thanks blod
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reader, Blod +, writes (24 January 2010):
 Ignore the anonymous answerer. How can anyone presume that you're gay after reading that!? You've been let down by someone you really like and want to move on from what's happened one way or the other.
She definately likes you, even if it's just as a friend. Girls like guys who are able to cheer them up and make them laugh so it's a big compliment that she told you that.
To move on, either way, I think the best way is to pretend that you're over her. It's difficult but people are more attractive if they seem confident, carefree and aren't afraid to be themselves. She says you're funny so make people laugh. She says you cheer her up, so make people smile. Show that you're fun to be with. She might have a change of heart, or someone else might notice you...
If she rejects you then, yes, it's tough as you already know. But I believe everything happens for a reason. If it's not meant to be then it's probably because there's someone better for you out there. It's hard to believe or want when you like someone so much but don't things will turn out ok in the end.
Best wishes.
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reader, neil61 +, writes (24 January 2010):
neil61 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni'm pretty sure I'm not gay. I have had a few gay thoughts but hardly any. I definitely want to be straight. I have been attracted to other girls but there's something special about this one. she's amazing but I seem to be the only one that feels this way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2010): Sounds to me like you are a gay. It's ok. Be a gay! But be true to yourself. Sounds again like maybe you are not ok with yourself?
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