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writes:a guy that claims to like me .. i think sometimes that i do like him but im not sure if its because he used to show me alot of attention now he doesnt show as much. everytime we are around each other he's always flirting with me and asking me to kiss him i recently told him i dont like him {i lied}because we saw each other i didnt say hi so he hit me and i hit him back so we was hitting each other for awhile then he came behind me and apologized and asked me to kiss him i said NO and pushed him away.. he cheated on the 2 girls he's been in a serious relationship with in the past and i just dont wanna be another one... my question is i think i still like him but sure a relationship between me and him may or may not work out... would it be wrong for me to kiss him? and how do i get him out of my head?? when he is every where i am.....lately his cousin has been showin interest in me takin me places buyin me stuff even though i offer to pay his cousin is sweet but a known flirt im not interested in his cousin but hes showin me the attention the other one used to show me before him... help do i stay away from the cousin..both of them? what to do
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2009): Be the lead actress by not giving in to what he asks of you, like kissing him. Let him know that you are not to be jerked around and that if he isn't going to get himself together to be with you, you will certainly find someone else who is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your reply but how exactly do I go about being the "lead actress"when I aleady turn him down and push him away?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2009): The guy you describe doesn't sound like boyfriend material. He sounds like the kind of guy that flirts with girls to reinforce the "bad ass" ego of himself in his head. A lot of guys are like this unfortunately. They flirt only to make themselves feel good and the girls are felt thinking that it is really because of them. So, yes, you should not kiss him or do anything with him. He is using you to make himself feel better. I know this because I have a lot of guy friends and they have all explained it to me this way.
You should hang out with his cousin if you are truly interested in him, but not to make guy #1 jealous.
I heard this is a movie once and I think it is so insightful: Instead of acting like the supporting actress in the situation, be the leading lady. No guy is going to give you what you want unless you demand more and elevate your standards.
Best wishes xo
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