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writes:i have been we my husband now for 12 yrs married 2 years.. he walked out on me saying he wasnt sure if he wanted to be with me or not he needed space but kept texting me he loves me and wants me for the rest of his life their is noone esle?? after 3 weeks he was home but things had changed with him like he was pushing me away doing silly little things. making it out as if i was going crazy. dont know why i put up with it ?? after 6 weeks of this happening he lefted and said it was a so call friend he wanted not me. after a week of not talking to him i was ready to listen which was he thought in was in love with her but never was he meet up with her 4 times in the 6 weeks 1 dirty picture and kiss her on the lips once their was loads of texting he said he was doing it cause he like the texing??? but it was only geranal stuff they talked about...he gets a bit angry when i talked to him about it could it be cause he had sex with her cause he says he wouldnt cause he only feels contable with me! could anyone tell me why?
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reader, cyndisandoval  +, writes (2 October 2009):
I have the same problem unfortunately we have children. I am upset as I am at home with our 2 year old twins and his two children form a previous relationship. I don't have any friends and my step childrens mother is in prison. I know if I leave it will be hard he loves his children but I know he doesn't love me. Of course he says he does but I do not believe anything he says. I have evidence of his affairs and constant texting. I feel like a babysitter. I want to work, but he refuses to pay for childcare. Anyway so much to say. Anyone have advice for me.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (28 September 2009):
He doesn't know what he wants and is dragging everyone into his mess. You'd be better off not speaking with him and moving on. He could even be playing the field and just coming and going to get his own way. Move on and find a good guy who will commit to you.
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