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male
age
41-50,
*elestial
writes:I was best friend with this girl for 2 years. Eventually I fell in love and confessed. But she turned me down and started dating the guy I hate the most. Now, the guy dumped her 5 months ago (they latest 2 months together). Through it all she always said that she wanted to stay friend. Now she kind of stopped talking to me, like before, and I can only have short sentences from her. But when I confront her she says that she doesn't have the time. Overall, I haven't seen her in 7 months. I miss her so much...Now, she started flirting with a guy from another country. I can see her msn/facebook quotes and it's killing me... She is planing a trip there and i feel as if she is gonna jump him on sight. Now it's totally killing me... Because I feel so insignificant... How can this guy that she barely know be better than my 2 years of friendship... I had to delete my facebook account, but i still have her on my msn... and her messages of love for the guys are killing me...Now, I don't know what to do... i just never had these feeling for anyone but her. I love her so much... I can't move on... And I can't stop crying...Right, now i'm sure she will get over country to have amazing sex with the guy... only to come back heartbroken... and maybe then she would want me... but she'll probably just go with other guys...
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (28 September 2009):
She doesn't fanncy you at all and she never will. This is a friends only relationship. Get out there with some friends and socialize. There are other girls are out there. If yourn friend always ends up heartbroken then she's not great at relationships anyway. Let her fly and get on with your own life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2009): Dude, you are completely in the Friend Zone. There's no relationship ever coming here. You have to get on with your life.
What you are doing now is pointless. It not only won't work, it is actually just about the worst thing you could be doing to try to get her. It's better both ways if you stop fawning over her.
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