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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I am a uni student. I went out once with this stranger whom I had a crush on for a long time. The first date was good. Unfortunately, things took an ugly turn and we both know that there will not be another date. We have no mutual friends. Despite all this, I am still attracted to him and want to have a one night stand with him and then not see him again. I want to approach him and ask whether he would be up for a ‘casual’. The problem is that exams will come in 4 weeks. During these time (and after exams), I won’t have a chance to see him in person. Given our history, obviously I can’t ask him for sex over the phone after exams? I really don’t want to have sex with him now because I am busy. I want to have feel-good sex after exams and before I take off for a holiday. Is it ok/acceptable to ask for a ‘casual’ 4 weeks in advance? Will he think I am weird?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2009): If you've had a sexual undertone all along, and you know he finds you attractive, here's what you can do. Agree to meet up with him at your house (or his) on the day when it fits you to have sex. Don't tell him you want a booty call. Just say that you'd like to see him one last time after exams, and ask if he'd like to come over to your place so you could be in private. If he's any good at casual sex with women he should pick up on the hints. If he's still innocent and doesnt know what to expect when he shows up, just go for it:
Lay your hand on his thigh and look him in the eyes and tell him you want to fuck him.
Dont go on and on around how you've been on a date before or whatever. Be a little selfish here! You want sex, go get it! If he wants it too, problem solved! If he doesnt want it, you will be disappointed, but there's other guys who'll be more then willing.
Make a plan B in case he'd not interested so your makeup wont be a complete waste.
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