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writes:im still heart broken over the break up of me and my bf. he left for college about 2 or 3 weeks ago and we havent talked in about 2 weeks because my mom blocked his number from my cell phone after me and him got in a fight. i looked on his facebook and saw a picture of him and this girl, i guess from school, and they were at the beach. he had his hand around her waist.idk if they are just friends or what. but she definatly does not look like his type at all. idk if im overreacting but im so hurt after i saw that. i want to know how he feels but im afraid to call him and i dont want to be rejected. i miss him more than you could imagine, i just dont know what to do.
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reader, outthebox +, writes (29 September 2009):
If he's in his freshmen year of college and your in highschool then your in trouble. Those things never seem to work. Best find someone else and just keep in touch. People change a lot when they go to college.
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reader, laxgirl93 +, writes (28 September 2009):
I understand exactly how you are feeling right now, I'm in the same situation except I still see my ex almost everyday and he isnt in college. I made the mistake of constantly calling/texting him because i missed him so much/was hurt/wantes to get back together. This only pushed him away further and turned him off towards me even more.
I dont think that you should call him just yet, I know its going to hurt more than anything, but you have to be strong. I'm sure he knows how you feel, and if he wants to work things out then he will come back for you.
In the mean time, please try to move on. Im trying as well and I know its hard! but i promised myself i'd go a month without talking to my ex, its been two days. & its still so very hard. take it one say at a time. Goodluck.
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