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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I am 21 yrs old and have 2 beutifull children with my boyfriend of 5 yrs who i love dearly and who dearly loves me, but I cant stop flirting and sleeping with other men. I flirt all the time online as i cant sleep with the men online, but if i go out i cant help but to flirt with every male until i find one that seems interested in me. I dont have to even fancy them. I have been told by many people that i am an extremely attractive young women but i dont feel it. This is starting to seriously jepordise my relationship as i have cheated on my boyfriend 12 times in 5 yrs. I need help, but the professionals i spoke to are useless. I hate other women as i need the constant attention of all males. I have had my father all my life but not too much. Please can someone help me??????
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reader, GrimmReality  +, writes (29 September 2009):
 Yeah I can help....
You can not find love in yoru relationship if you are seeking love outside of it.
Part of being an adult is taking responsibility for our actions.
You are simply too selfish and immature to be in any kind of relationship.
You cant love your man and cheat on him, IT IS IMPOSSIBLE!
GROW THE HELL UP!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2009): well, the other question is were you abused? if so then the professionals you loath are the onl ones who can help. That by the way, takes years not days.
with that part being said. I can't help but feel that you are not ready for a relationship. Nor do you want one. If you so need to have this type of attention then you need to do two things
a-- leave your husband and quit hurting him (unless he is ok with this)
b--change professions..
i am not saying this to be mean in anyway.. but if you so love the sex and attention, well, then maybe you should consider it professionally.
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