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Intimidated in the bedroom

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Question - (28 September 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 29 September 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, *LenN writes:

so i have been with my girlfried for about four months but we really never did anything. we had sex about two weeks ago or at least attempted to. some one came home and we were forced to stop before it really began. with that being said she never really got into it granted it had started like a few mins before that happend but whatever. we were discussing size and such the other night and she told me her ex was frankly about 9 inches. i feel really inimidated by that. i am smaller by about two inches maybe less. but i still feel really self concious about it and weahter or not i can keep her satisfyed.

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A male reader, softtouchmale2003 United States +, writes (29 September 2009):

softtouchmale2003 agony auntSize shouldn't be an issue. It all depends on what she's looking for, for excitement and pleasure.

With anything else, if the two of you think of each other's needs first, then consider your own needs, there's a way to work around everything. But being 7 inches or 9 inches isn't going to be that big of a difference if she loves you.

Its not what you do with it, its how you use it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2009):

Size does not matter. What does matter is that you put her first, and yourself second. Sex is emotional and physical. If you show an effort to put her first, then she will be satisfied.

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A female reader, cold_as_ice17 United States +, writes (28 September 2009):

cold_as_ice17 agony auntReally size in my opinion does not matter. Just because her ex had a big member doesn't mean she was satisfied. Ask her honestly and she might surprise you by telling you she never achieved an orgasm. Even if she has I'm sure you can still satisfy her plenty.

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