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My daughter told me she was abused by my ex

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Question - (28 September 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 29 September 2009)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

My daughter who is now 18 years old, told me last night that my ex-husband sexually abused her when she was 12 years old. I need help! Can we still press charges against this sexual abuser? The incident occured in New York. Can we presecute him? What is the statute of limitation in NYS?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2009):

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I thank you all for responding to my question. I am in alot of pain because my daughter is suffering so much. She does not want to talk about the situation at all. I am praying that she opens up more to me. She does not trust the legal system and wants to move on with her life but I know that she is suffering greatly. Please pray for us. I want to bring this bastard to justice.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (28 September 2009):

I'm so sorry.

First thing, contact the police or a lawyer and see what they have to say. I should think you will be able to file a lawsuit, but best to ask the professionals.

Next, ensure that your daughter and you receive counselling. It's very important you do this to get it all out in the open between you so you are able to begin to move foward.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2009):

I don't know about NYC's specific laws and procedure but I think there are few police forces who wouldn't take this matter seriously and investigate it.

Please contact your police department as soon as you can.

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