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writes:ok i have a problem at times i think im gay and then i don't, when i look at gay porn i believe im gay but after i masterbat to it, it makes a left and i feel stupid for doing it like what is wrong with me, and then there are girls i like and would like to talk and there are some that like me but i scared to go with them because i can't masterbat to girls easy i get nervous that they may wont sex or some and i can't do it but there are some i really do like but get scared, and then i see boys like when they were younger they use to act gay and people said they were gay but they done changed its like they just grew out of it or they just acting but i wish i could grow out of me i think that i should've never fed myself with all that porn on the computer i think i would be good right now,(now im 15) i don't think im gay because the only to i get hard to them is when i see or think of porn not inperson at all but i don't no i feel so different and weired i gave up the porn and put my focus on girls and i have a girl i talk to at times and i'll see how it goes from here but i wanna know is how did the boys who use to be gay change its maybe because of church because in the jehovahs bible it says homosexuals can change you can change when you are doing gods wrong doing, what can i do
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2009): Well, first I have to say, there is NOTHING wrong with being gay. You are not a bad person or going to go to hell because you like the same sex. God is all-powerful and to think he did not create homosexuality is an affront to him. Now, that being said, I believe you are just sexually confused/curious. Part of sexual arousal is breaking "taboo." Taboos are certain words or actions that are looked down upon or forbidden in society. It is taboo to walk the streets naked, yet some people do so (at their own risk of course). I think you just find the male figure to be interesting and "forbidden." You may not be gay, but it peaks you sexual curiosity. In time, you may naturally grow out of it, being only 15 your body is still growing, changing and evolving. You may stop liking females, or you may stop liking males, but you may also continue to like both. In that case you may consider yourself bisexual. No matter the case, whether you be straight, gay or bisexual it is all OK and it is all natural. There are millions of people who fall into each catagory, there is no "right answer" it is just how you feel. I personally am straight, but I don't freak out at the site of a male genital. I don't get excited over it, but I am comfortable enough in my sexuality to not let it effect me. As for you, I suggest just going with the flow, don't worry about being judged because any human who has the time to pass judgement on someone else does not deserve the time of day to begin with. Just try not to worry so much about it, you are only 15 and have many years to "sow your oats."
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reader, LessonsLearned +, writes (28 September 2009):
Straight men, generally, are repulsed by the sight of gay porn. The fact that it turns you on to the point of orgasm is a good indication your homosexual or at least bisexual. The only exception would be if your addiction to Internet porn progressed to gay sex in an attempt to feel something because you burnt yourself out on regular porn. Another possibility is that you were sexualized by another male at a young age and it gave you homosexual tendencies you may not otherwise have had. Regardless of how this situation occurred its basically impossible to change. You should accept your homosexual side and call yourself Bi for now until you understand your sexuality better. Find a guy you like and try it out and see if you like it. No harm, no foul. Its experimentation time. Theres nothing wrong with being gay! But theres a lot wrong with denying your true selfselfself.
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