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36-40,
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writes:i am 21. i had a relationship with the girl of my dreams but due to some silly reasons and some miscommunication we broke up 6 months ago in a hassle. it even got a bit ugly for some time for the both of us. she never used to return my calls and even picked up dem up only after i had called her like 10 times. But due to my persistence to always call her and trying to meet her things have changed since the past 2 weeks, she herself asked me out on a lunch date. She wore a short skirt and a top i always told her was my favorite on her. I felt she is again interested in me as earlier, but whenever i even held her hand, she said she felt uncomfortable and asked me not to do so, whereas when we were in a relationship, we have done almost everything lovers do. And she also insisted she does not want a relationship. But again, she felt great when i flirted with her. what is the matter? what might she want? what should i do in such a situation?
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reader, outthebox  +, writes (29 September 2009):
If you want to be friends then just be friendly with her. If you want her back your going in the complete wrong direction. Don't call 10 times. Treat her as if she's just one of many girls your dating. Show her that you have your own life and it's not based on her. Keep in contact, but not to closely. Keep in touch. Let her know what you've been doing with yourself, flirt, and make her laugh. Try dating other people if anything just to put you in the right frame of mind and have fun.
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (28 September 2009):
 It could be she has feelings for you but doesnt want to get hurt by having a relationship with you due to the way things ended the last time. Or she could just want to be friends with you only and keep contact with you.
She has made it clear that she only wants to be friends for now so respect her and not look too deeply into why she wore certain clothes.
If you love her give her time and let her know you are there for her. Take it from there.
Good luck!
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