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writes:well I like my brothers friend, I always have liked him but never admittied it to anyone cause i dont know how my bro would react to it. recently the feelings I have for him have started to surface alot more and my friends all found out i liked him. Anyway this all started like 2 weeks ago when I was out for one off my friends leaving do's for uni and we were all getting drunk and me and him were up dancing and there was times when we nearly kissed on the dancefloor but then he left with some other girl that nite. Anyway the next weekend i was out with my friends and he came and gave me and my fiends a lift to a party and we were flirting away in the front of his car. then though later on in the nite the girl he went with turned up at the party so it was a little awkward. my freinds were saying he wasnt even holding her hand or kissing her so it obvious he was just going with her and wasnt that into her, but i was kinda drunk so just went home. Anyway then last nite we were all out and we were drunk again and talking away at the bar. He has broking up with the girl he was going with, but she keeps txting him being like "i wani have sex danite etc" but he was txting her back but never actually went to c her. Then that nite apparently both of us were flirting away with each other over a video came and it was well noticable i was into him. At the end of the nite it was just me and him left in the house and at one stage he was trying to get the remote off me and was practically on top of me, and we ended up on the same sofa (he did want me to go over to his sofa) playing thumb wars. Then we nearly went with each other.Then my bro walks in and i could see he was a little bit ragin, but is he just doing this stuff cause he is drunk and feeding off me flirting or does he actually like me. Cause when were sober nothing happens my friends say he does but he is afraid to make the move cause he's one of my bros friends (and my bros a little overprotective) but i think there just being nice cause there my friend. How can i tell im so confused, cause i wouldnt wani make a move and make everything complicated if he isnt that into me? Thanks (soz it so long)
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reader, GR*  +, writes (28 September 2009):
I think you should wait for a time when both you and your brothers friend are alone [and sober!] and then simply ask him how he feels about the situation between you and him.
I know from personal experiernces that its better to do things sober because then you dont have to worry about saying anything dumb and regretting it. Tell him exactly how you feel. It's better to know sooner then later cause the sooner you know the sooner you'll be able to either move on and get him out of your head or start something a little more solid with him!
Good luck with everything :)
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (28 September 2009):
Well this is a little complicated. Certainly your brother may not like the idea of his sister going out with his friend, but that shouldn't stop you. However, I'm more concerned that he was using the girl before. By all means, talk to him (and be sober when you do, not drunk), but be careful he doesn't use you.
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