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writes: hey my girlfriend treats me really bad when i try to help her still or at an time tonight i woke up and said i love you to her quietly so she wouldnt wake up but she did, and she was wearing some hair curlers or something. it one became uncomfortable for or something so she tried taking it out but her hair got tangled up in it so i offered to help, but she got mad and i said im just trying to help so she started to pull on it and she made it worse for her self and i said stop your making your hair get tangled. so she kept on pulling and pulling then she yelled at me saying get it out then i said ok and i got very mad and hurt because im trying to help and she treats me like shit all the time. i dont know if she was like that because she just woke up or anything i dont know and i told her not to treat me this way i love her so much i dont even know why anymore. please help me
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (28 September 2009):
Save all that love you have for a woman who will appreciate it. This girl sounds like bad news. She treats you like shit? Well, there's your answer really. Let her go and get a better girl. There are plenty of others.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2009): You are wise! The key to your answer is just what you stated:
"She treats me like shit all the time." Apparently you don't like being treated that way, so leave her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2009): If you feel like she treats you like crap all the time then why dont you just break up with her instead of asking us for advice? Seriously. If this was a one time incident, then yes she might well be one of those "early morning grumpyness" people. I am one of those, and especially if Im sleeping and not fully awake I can be quite a devil.
But if you feel she's always like this, and dont even know why you love her anymore, what are you complaining to us for, just get out of the relationship if you're so unhappy.
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