A
male
age
,
*patx18
writes:I have been married to my wife for 23 yrs, over the yrs we have had many fights and even break ups due to my anger,I guess maybe that is the answered to my own question and reason for her actions and maybe i deseve whats comming to me. Recently i filled for divorce, but we have now reconciled. In the past she has been the one with the good sex drive, it was me that was a little standoffish. but now that we are trying to work it out (again)i am as horny as a teenager and she is a post menopausal 44 yrs i guess normal female. sorry to be so blunt but i cant stop thinking about sex with her no matter where we are i am all over her, she has not really turned me down but I'm just wondering how to lite her fire again to bring back the woman i love with all my heart and not push her away she says that she wishes i was normal, i cant help my self sex is all i think about with her,i find my self fantasizing every time i lok at her (46)(women i need your help)
View related questions:
divorce, horny, sex drive Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Jayney Y  +, writes (28 September 2009):
 I don't think menopause is really the problem. Unfortunately a lot of men become bullies in marriage, (ie; they feel free to vent their anger with no real thought for how it affects the other person), and the result is usually that the wife gradually comes to dislike the husband. Being the victim of bullying diminishes a persons sense of self-worth, and often causes depression. When someone has victimised you to that point, you don't like them any more, and when you don't like someone you don't want to have sex with them. Would you still be in love with someone if they'd dumped their anger on you for years? Sorry to be so blunt, but maybe you don't deserve her.
|
