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Why do guys tell you that they love you on the first date?

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Question - (28 September 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 28 September 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *unty Emily writes:

Why do loads of guys ask you to marry them or tell you that they love you on the first date? is it because

a.)their completely insane

b.)they think your stupid enough to believe them

3.)they don't usually-I just date the weirdos

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (28 September 2009):

Errm option 3. Some guys do fall very quickly, but not usually on the first date. And I've never heard of anyone proposing on the first date. However, a lot of guys certainly say this to have their wicked way, as it were. So keep on with datingm make your way through the guys that aren't all that good, and you'll find a decent guy who has all his nuts and bolts together in the right places.

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A female reader, k_c100 United Kingdom +, writes (28 September 2009):

k_c100 agony auntWell I would have to say option 3 - I have never ever in all my 22 years of life come across a guy who has asked me to marry him on the 1st date! You may just be dating the complete nutters!

It is very unusual for a guy to say that he wants to marry you or that he loves you on a first date - it has never happened to me and I've never heard of it happening to any of my friends either!

Some guys can be very forward and go out of their way to compliment you and flatter you in order to get you into bed on a first date - but saying "I love you" on a first date takes it a little far!

You will come across a lot of weird guys when you are dating, I was single for 8 months recently and went out on quite a few dates, and I pretty much decided men were way more complicated than women and most of them were nuts! But eventually after dating some awful guys and nearly giving up on dating completely, I met the most amazing guy who I am very happy with. So I figured you just have to go on all the bad dates to make you appreciate the good ones when you find them!

I hope this helps!

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (28 September 2009):

LazyGuy agony auntAB3

I also think your attention span is a bit short.

But guys tell girls stiff to get in to their pants. Girls complain about it, but typically only AFTER the one night stand.

The battle of the sexes, proof war is stupid.

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