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writes:Help me I don't know what to do. My lifes spinning out of control in a downword spiral. I just lost my job on friday. I'm pregnant. My fiance don't want to move in with my family because he can't stand them. But it would be the best choice cause if we stay with his family they will kill us once they find out. Plus they will kick me out once they figure out I'm not working. I need a job real bad. I just don't know what to do. I feel like giving up on life.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (28 September 2009):
The most important thing here is that you and your baby are safe and healthy. So you come first. If you need to move in with your parents, then that's what you'll have to do. Your fiance's fmaily don't matter one bit, because they're his fmaily, and therefore his problem. Worry about yourself and your baby, let him deal with them. Don't give up on life, just focus it on this one big thing! Your pregnancy. You come first, so make sure he knows it. Either he moves in with your parents, or you'll have to live apart for the moment. As for work, be concerened with that when you've got through your pregnancy. Best wishes. Enjoy your pregnancy and take it easy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2009): Things could be worse, at least the baby's father is your fiance. He's going to have to accept living with your family for a while until you can afford your own place, or else you are going to have to be apart. I guess it's pretty scary, but you're too young to be giving up on life just yet, and you've got a baby to consider now. If you can put a fake smile on and go look for another job, at least you will be trying and then you might find that people are more willing to help you out. Good luck :)
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