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writes:So my cheating ex who has not talked to me in 8monthsand blocked me from everything...facebook, yahoo, games we played, his celldecided to contact me 2 weeks agoit started with a friend and on yahoowell then he started texting me and talking to me on yahooHe keeps asking me why im mad at him...hmm I wonder why! He cheated on me with 3 others!He tells me he dropped out of college to go into the marines but decided not to do it then his parents kicked him out so hes living at his grandparents and working at Walmartbut I havnt told him why im mad...you'd think he would figure this out...well he got on yahoo tonight and said "hey cutie" but then later on he said "are you still mad at me?"I said: "it will take awhile for you to regain my trust" he goes "well I just want to be friends,im sorry I hurt you"what do you think of this?Should I sit down and have a talk with him about why im hurt/mad and then go on with a friendship? or forget him totally?or is he really wanting just a friendship?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2009): It's been 8 months..........
Don't tell him because it is only going to cause him to respond with some excuse to validate him doing what he was did. Just block him, he should be moving on and self examined himself after ya'll break up.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (28 September 2009):
No, no, no, no, no. This guy hurt you, cheated on you three times. Don't even give him one second of your time. ?Tell him he's your past and you want nothing more to do with him. Then block him, forget about him and find a good, decent guy who will treat you properly. The good news is that there are better guuys out there. Forget this one. And don't explain either, you don't have to.
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