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writes:I just asked a girl out to homecoming shes my friend but i want to take it a bit farther than friends and be in a relatioship with her how can i do that while makeing it as least akward as possible Reply to this Question
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reader, Blod  +, writes (28 September 2009):
 I'm no expert, but as a girl I'd suggest that you build up to it. Don't shock her by suddenly blurting out "I want to be more than friends!" and trying to kiss her. You need to prepare her for it so that she knows what's coming and that you get the best reaction possible, either way.
Be nice to her and be friendly, but try to push the barriers of friendship a bit. You could try complimenting her, maybe flirt little which'll give you an idea of how she feels. It'd be best to be sure if she feels the same about you.
Make an effort with your appearance and maybe you'd be more successful if you planned it. If you were clear in your head as to what you're doing, when, where and how, that would help. And also, make sure it's the right moment. That would really help with the awkwardness.
Make sure after all this that you do take that step. If you didn't you could be sending out massive mixed signals and push her away.
Be sure of yourself. Good Luck. X
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