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There simply is no answer to the question “Now what?”

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Question - (25 October 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 25 October 2009)
A male Canada, anonymous writes:

I have no direction in life; none. There simply is no answer to the question “Now what?”

I’m unhappy, tired and demoralized. I want to change in so many ways. I know I’m not alone as I’ve read this same story over and over in the DearCupid archives but the advice offered doesn’t resonate with me. I’ve had my fill of introspection and I really can’t stomach another spoonful of this suggestion after so many years and still not really knowing who I am and where I am in this world. I’m just as lost as I’ve ever been and I can’t do this alone. I’m frustrated. I need support. Friends, family, girlfriends, professionals, books, and websites – they’re wonderful but I keep going in circles. I think I need something outside my circle.

It would be nice to chat with a stranger in a similar position. Sometimes it’s easier to be honest with a stranger than it is with your best friend and all the more if they’re going through the same thing. I’m feeling helpless. If you’re going through the same thing, perhaps we could motivate each other – like a buddy system. Hopefully the DearCupid moderators will let me post this. I could really use some help.

[Moderator Note: E-Mail address removed. Please use PM for exchange of contact information]

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2009):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Shiny Moon and BeingMyself: Thanks for your reply. I’ve sent you a PM.

Ask oldersister: Thanks for reading my question.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2009):

I'm in a similiar situation. PM me if you wish.

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A female reader, Shiny Moon India +, writes (25 October 2009):

I can understand what ur going through at this time.

Can you pls drop a reply to the id i'm posting from.

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