A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:ive been with this guy for 2 years and ive caught him cheating on me twice. but last time he left me for a girl because i didnt want premarital sex but then 4 mnths later he came back to me and apologized i took him back. But i told him that i am not going to be ok wth him having any girl friends( he never really had any female friends earlier). earlier he usd to flirt with girls all the time and tell me not to talk to any guys when behind my back he would try to hook up with them. Now after i took him back he says its ok for me to have male friends.... and i shouldnt stop him from having any female friends.... when earlier he usd to stop me from haviing male friends i had never stopped him from having any female friends but he betrayed my trust. Now i told him that i dont want him to have any female friends if he wants to be with me, but i caught him befriending girls again. he lied to me about not talking to any girls.now i dont know if he is flirting with them or not. he says he is not but then again he lies..... we are 3 hours apart in different cities, everytime i tell him how he makes me feel he says i complain. we barely talk on the phone but whenever we do he is always mean to me. i dont know what to do i love him but i dont want to keep wondering what he does when im not there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2009): I agree. You need to get away from this liar and cheater and find someone that will treat you right.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (25 October 2009):
He broke your trust before by leaving you for someone else because he didn't respect your beliefs, he came back but he's seeing other women and lied to you about it and he's mean to you on the phone. I think you know what you have to do deep down. Ditch him. He's not worthy of you. There are better guys out there, and this one just isn't interested in you enough. Be brave, end it with him, give yourself time to heal and find a better guy who will respect you.
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