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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I'm approaching my mid-twenties and I've never had a relationship. Sometimes, I wonder why I can't seem to get into a relationship, while most people my age are already married or committed to someone.I have just finished my master's degree and I have a good job which I enjoy doing. I'm an attractive person, active and fit. Many guys compliment me and I'm confident with myself. As a person, I'm reserved but can be quite outgoing at other times. I'm happy with my life and I like myself and therefore I wonder why I haven't been in a relationship yet. I'm aware that I'm quite choosy when it comes to men but I consider it as a good thing as I wouldn't want to enter a relationship with a man whom I don't find appealing enough.Two years ago, I got involved with a guy who fitted my idea of the perfect man. Unfortunately, there was the distance problem and this man eventually found someone else who lived in his country. I felt rejected and heartbroken but I'm trying to put this behind me. I stopped communication with him after he told me about the new girl but even though more than a year has passed, I still miss him. I wonder what he's up to or if he's still with this girl or another one. I think everyday about initiating contact again but I don't know if it's a good idea. what do you think? I remember him being surprised when I told him that I have never had a relationship. He told me that usually people find it harder to date if they aren't involved or into dating in their late teens/ early twenties. So, I'm now afraid that I might end up alone or having to settle for someone whom I don't see myself with. Anyway, I'm probably overanalyzing things but I get days where I can't stop thinking about my non-existing love life :-) Thanks.
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reader, Lonely soul  +, writes (25 October 2009):
Thats just they way your life is playing out. There isnt much you can do about it. Your not in the prime of your life. If you hit 35 years old and are still having the same issues than, it is an issue.
Just remember that you will never get love, if you cant give it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2009): dont worry u not alone..i'm on the same boat as u...i never had a relationship at all and i'm almost 25...I'm still studying and working at the moment...so my point is its not the end of the world so dont worry about it just enjoy life as it is.
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