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writes:im still not over my ex and its been nearly a year and a half since he dumped he i feel like im falling for him mre which is bad i no i cant he dont like me like dat. I've tried everything nothing seems to work. He cant understand why i got so attached coz we didnt do anything he didnt even kiss me :( which still hurts me, he saw our relationship mre as a friendship which kills me coz he was confused n realised he actually onli saw me as a friend.My friends think im attached coz 2 me it was real. I desperately wanna no how 2 heal my heart, my friendship with him now is on da rocks, i neva realised until now dat u cant always be best friends with ur ex.
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reader, the_phoenic +, writes (26 October 2009):
dont send no good bye texts or any thing else
just leave and leave for good
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for all your comments im goin 2 try and cut contact since im on half term holiday i wont see him but and also shud i giv him a goodbye text,letter, call etc or something i haven't spoken to him for two days but he's always sed 2 me if i needed space it wud be hard for him as well as me but he wud like me to coz it may be seen as rude if i just stop talkin 2 him. I dunno how im gonna cut contact in skl doe im in 2 of his lessons so i will see him everyday coz its a level lesson and on wednesdays im in every class wid him so i wud much appreciate cutting off contact advice plz and thank u.
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reader, the_phoenic +, writes (26 October 2009):
it varies from person to person usualy arround a year or two..but nothing completely cures love like falling in love again
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2009): I've been in love with the same man for almost four years now. I've never had a relationship with him and he has no idea I feel like this yet somehow i'm so attached. I haven't seen him nor spoken to him in a while. The feelings are still there, maybe a little less hurting, but they're definitely still there and i'm pretty sure they always will be there. I think sometimes you can't get over someone, but maybe the feelings will get less and less each day if you don't see or speak to him. The two key word are TIME and DISTANCE...you can't expect to get over him if you talk to him or see him on a daily basis. If thats not possible, then try meeting other guys to fill his place. It didn't work for me, but it does work for a lot of people. Maybe try doing something to keep your mind off him. I hope iv'e helped, keep us updated!
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