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*ickaust1971
writes:hello everyone,I met a girl a few months ago and like her alot.I use to ring her everyday and she use to ring me the same.Before we went on holiday we had a talk about things thats on her mind and that she want to slow the relationship down a little.So I now ring her once every 2nd day.On the way up to Queensland she was great to be with and seem to having a good time but when we got to Sydney she started to act funny.I asked her whats wrong and she said that shes having cramps and they are bad so I thought nothing of it.On the way back from Queensland we had another talk and then she says that Im still calling her to much and Im acting like we are husband and wife.When we got back to Melbourne she then told me that she had a good time and now is thinking about moving to Queensland and wants to have alone time to think about what shes going to do She then told me that we are not breaking up we are just having time to think about things.Shes from Brazil and have family there still so I think that shes not happy about that . I have decided to give her time to think and if she hasnt called me in 4 weeks then I will take its over I also deleted her number of my phone so I cant call her.If anyone has any advice they can give me on this will help me alot.Thanks for reading this and sorry its to long.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2009): I think you're approaching this a bit too mechanically, you ring her every 2nd day like clockwork? Maybe just hold off a bit and only call if you have something particular to tell her, I know it can be tricky not to rush into things when you're really keen on someone, but you don't want to scare them off, how often do you meet up with her?
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reader, L*  +, writes (25 October 2009):
she's telling you to slow down....so give her all the space she needs, she knows that you're there for her so don't contact her now. leave her to contact you. but don't get your hopes too high about this girl, from what you're saying she doesn't seem to be really interested.
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