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I finally cut off my sponging ex, but I feel awful

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Question - (25 October 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 26 October 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

am i horrible ?

the reason i ask is because today i have told my ex i will not be paying his rent anymore. he has bled me dry-left me insolvent and yet for the past year i have still done everything i can to support him. for the last 4 years he has been emotionall abusive and occasionally physically. it has taken me so long to get the courage to do this but i feel worthless and guilty i want to feel good but i know im going to get a string of nasty texts etc. i just want to feel good but i dont know how help me please

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2009):

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thankyou for taking the time to answer you sweet lovely people xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2009):

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thanx guys

as usual you are spot on and you have cheered me up immensley thanku xxxxxx

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (25 October 2009):

You've done the right thing. Be very proud. Just keep busy, focus on yourself and spoil yourself rotten, get out there and meet new people, perhaps start a new hobby where other men and women are so you can keep socializing, and look in the mirror and smile. You've done the right thing by getting rid of him. Now get out there and have fun! :) Good luck.

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