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I can't stop thinking that our relationship is doomed!

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Question - (25 October 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 25 October 2009)
A age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi I am a 21 year old who is terribly in love with the girl of my dreams. I constanly think life will find a way of taking us apart and there is no chance in hell we can be together thoughts like these hurt me alot and I tell my Girlfriend everything she thinks im really paranoid recently i heard the word intuition and my mind keeps playing and playing scenarios thats its my intuition telling that life will take urll apart these thoughts hurt me so much i cant study or concentrate on anything.My whole family knows about her and also her family we are planning to get married my negative thinking has really hurt me. Im just so paralysed now i dont no whats right anymore. I keep thinking her ex boyfriend will do something to take us apart these thoughts really eat me up. I really do love and also everytime i be confident my mind will go life will find a way to break us apart these things really affect me its really hard to deal with. Can you please tell me What i am to do because i dont ever wanna lose her my mind is playing havoc with me and really causing misery to our relationship im writing this with a great deal of pain please the advice you give will be ever mostly valued.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2009):

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The thing is I dont no how to handle these thoughts they become so painful I never heard the word intuition but when I did my mind made so many scenarios with it Similarly words like fate its really hard for me to even to look at a sad movie thats how terrible I have become.I worry so much.We are to marry one day but my mind keeps saying something may go wrong and you will end up with nothing these thoughts hurt me so much.

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