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We are planning on losing our virginity together!

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Question - (25 October 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 28 October 2009)
A male Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hey all

my girlfriend and i are planning on having sex soon, it will be the first time for both of us. what are some recommended positions for first time, aside from standard missionary which will make it fun and enjoyable?

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A female reader, Ravenxx91 United Kingdom +, writes (28 October 2009):

Ravenxx91 agony auntfirst of all PROTECTION..

glad thats over with.

anyway. ok well listen to the others advice... *now tries to think of positions*

I personally think missionary is the best and less painful for the girl

*i would like to inform you, as your a virgin its unliekly you will last very long but dont get embarrased by it!*

Anyway missionary is good because its les painful. Only things i can think of is her being on top? But it depends if she is comfortable with that? The good part is she can control and stop if it hurts and go at what pace she wants..

Us women are fragile in that area while its pure! =] Make sure everything is done FOR her... it all gets better later x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2009):

LISTEN TO HER!

Let her tell you when to move and stuff untill shes comfortable, because remember it is gonna... well not hurt exactly, but sting a little... so let her take control until the painful bit is over, then just go steady and in a rhythum :)

Probaly best if you lie down and she sits on top of you, then she can control how deep/ the speed etc.

Be a gentleman and put her first, the time to experiment comes later!

Good luck, it will be fine. Sure its not the best sex of your life but it has to happen to everyone :)

xx

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2009):

treat her right. how u do it on her first time shapes her perception of sex for the future and men in general

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