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anonymous
writes:When i first joined my high school in 2006, i met this girl that i instantly fell in love with(lets call her A), however, since then, i have discovered that one of my best friends also likes her(lets call him B). My other friend (lets call him C) has been in love with another girl(lets call her D). B and C are friends and A and D are also Friends. Earlier this year, D found out that C was in love with her, and then a few weeks after, A found out that B loves her. Recently A,B,C and D have all been going out together however deciding to leave me out of everything, which made me upset.this morning i found out that yesterday, yet again, they all went out to the cinema with each other and C asked D out and she said yes. I am very happy for him. However, A and B sat together, and although he didnt make a move on her, it has annoyed me.B is not usually a horrible person, however i feel he is being very selfish and horrible to me by not asking me if i wanted to go. I havent spoken to A for ages and the loneliness has started to depress me. Also, i have tried moving on from A many times however i am finding it extremely difficult. what should i do about it? how can i stop feeling so depressed? Thanks in advance
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell, the problem is, as I forgot to explain in the question, A doesn't like me 'in that way' however I feel that she does like B. I'm quite shy and even though she already knows I like her, I don't really have the confidence to go talk to her about it
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reader, Ravenxx91 +, writes (25 October 2009):
 Go and talk to A hun just give it time though! Dont worry about B, if he is your friend he will understand, if not then hes not worth it! x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (25 October 2009):
Speak to A! She won't ever know you like her unless you just speak to her and get to know her. Also, you need to expand your frienship circle. It sounds like they're all getting close because they're all going to be going out with each other. You need to make sure you're socializing with other people so if A does go out wit this guy, you have the best chance of getting over her.
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