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writes:After one year of being together, why would a man still accuse his significant other of looking at other men and trying to show off her body?I can reassure everyone, I do not look at other men. In fact, I see people. I do not look at people to see if they are attractive or not - quite frankly, I do not care because I am in love with my boyfriend - and I've told him this since last summer when we started dating and he would tell me that he only asked so he could get to know who I am. Nor do I show off my body. I am a woman and I love to dress like a woman, therefore I do. However, wearing a long strapless dress in the summer means that I am trying too hard to look beautiful for other people?Advice? Please? Reply to this Question
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reader, QuirkLady  +, writes (25 October 2009):
 Your boyfriend is seriously insecure. Unfortunately you can't help him; he has to help himself before he runs you off with his constant questioning and need for reassurance. The best you can do is reassure him - not constantly - and try to explain to him that he needs to learn to trust you. It's been a year and it's not fair that you have to keep proving yourself.
Good luck. You'll need it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2009): It sounds like your boyfriend is nuts about you and thinks yor are beautiful and he is insecure that you might look at another man and like him. Keep reassuring him that you are attracted to him and only him. He might be coming from a relationship where he was cheated on. Over time the trust and security will develop.
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