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*ola29
writes:hey, I just got back with my bf ever since we split for 3 months and its just been a month together, and iv noticed hes begging to be needy and abit controlling when it comes to me talking to certain guys im friends with.we go to different colleges and he told me it breaks his heart knowing there are guys around me and hitting on me and he cannot be there to see who im talking to do, and what im doing. i was just wonderign is this normal, i keep seeing this as a sign hes cheating on me and that he's feeling guilty online so he gives me more attention, but its more like he wants me to give him more attention and attending to his needs. this was a problem before as i didnt pay as much attention to him that he decided to talk to this other girl alot, because she was interested in him and i just couldnt deal with it anymore and didnt want to know any more details of it so i ended it abruptly. thank you if replied. Reply to this Question
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reader, Little Miss Hope  +, writes (25 October 2009):
I don't think he's feeling guilty, perhaps a bit insecure. Every relationship is based on trust, iv been with my partner for two years and we both trust eachother completely coz at the end of the day I know he's gona come back to me and vis versa, maybe u need to think this relationship through, where can u see urself with him in the next 12months? If u think he'll never change then I'd get rid before its too late! No woman derserves to be controlled, ur young, pretty and an independent woman :) x
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