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I am scared of potential legal action against me!

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Question - (25 October 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 25 October 2009)
A male Canada age 36-40, anonymous writes:

i am with this girl for 2 years and we are very close but i dont love her and are just friends... i want to tell u that the kissing was a mutual decision and i just let her touch on the surface of my pants on my private part.. i am 22 and the girl is about to turn 18...i am scared of the child molestation case anytime in the future and am badly stressd and cant concentrate on anything and this thaught is haunting me....i cant even let it go that easily out of my mind ....i just let her touch there and kissed her lips nothing else and i badly regret it now ...please help

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A male reader, Undisclosed Canada +, writes (25 October 2009):

Undisclosed agony auntI'm sorry to hear this is stressing you out. In Canada:

The age of consent to sexual activities is 16.

The age of consent is 18 years where the sexual activity involves exploitative activity, such as prostitution, pornography or where there is a relationship of trust, authority or dependency. (Think: Teacher-Student, Employer-Employee).

You're not raping her or molesting her. You're not in trouble. Relax man. Go kiss your girl.

Have fun.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2009):

I agree with helpless girl. I was 20 and with a 17 1/2 y/o g/f and nothing ever came from it(trouble)and our relationship lasted for 6 yrs.So what, you kissed and she touched you, through your pants, on her free will,I mean WHAT THE HELL?Why are you even worried about it? You've got too much time on your hands!

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A female reader, helplessgirl08 Ireland +, writes (25 October 2009):

if she was over 17 when you did this then your ok cos she was sexully legal and she did it out of her own free will

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