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Sex after having a baby

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Question - (25 October 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 25 October 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I just had a baby and during labor i tore real bad. i didnt tear down i tore on the side. and it goes real deep in my vagina. its heeled up now but it hurts to touch it and wipe and i have been holding off on sex till my 6 week doc visit. well its coming up and my boyfriend is getting excited but im worried its going to hurt. so does it hurt when u tear from the inside out?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2009):

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Oh man i wish i had a dildo lol ok well i am going to get some lube then and i dnt think he would be to hard we have talked about it and he told me he would understand if i ask him to stop.

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (25 October 2009):

LazyGuy agony auntWait for the doctor to give you the all clear and not before and then take it REALLY slow and with lots of preperation and lube.

You could even try with a didlo so you won't have to be afraid of a horny guy pushing to hard.

Yes it might hurt, you had/have a nasty wound and it will take time to heal. Give it time and don't force it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2009):

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Oh god no i dnt wanna go through that again.

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