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female
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30-35,
*jaycx
writes:Hiya, Ive been with my boyfriend for 2years now and I love him to bits and hope to end up marrying him. However im so confused with my feelings- because im SO bored now and we're having less sex which makes me feel un loved and un wanted. I just dont feel that he loves me any more but he keeps telling me im being silly and he loves me more than ever. He doesnt realise when he turns down sex how hurt I get but I dont know why it upsets me because when we have sex now I dont feel a spark. Is our relationship coming to an end or does the love need to be re kindeled. Please help I dont know whether to split up or what.Thanks
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reader, Shiny Moon  +, writes (25 October 2009):
Try to work it out. this is common after some time. we cant expect that we will be having honey moon time always. after the first few months we feel this way. try to rekindle the lost love. try to take a vacation. try exploring new things together. convince him in indulging in some games together. try to spend time together talking. try to be open in ur relationship. support each other. if u support him and appreciate him on simple things he does to u then u can definately find some difference. its not easy to go thru a break up and search again love in some one else. wat if u end up breaking again. there is no use in doing this. it will become like an habit to u. try to do ur best in this relationship. talk to him opening. try impressing him by doing something he likes.
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