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writes:Okay. I'll try to make this short and quick. I've liked this one guy for way too long and I just want us to date already. We are really good friends and I don't see how we can't be really great as boyfriend and girlfriend. There have been times when he has liked me, but has been afraid to admit it and I'm almost positive that he is starting to like me again. How do I get him to admit his feelings without scaring him off or ruining our friendship? Reply to this Question
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (25 October 2009):
Just gather up the courage to tell him that you think you would make a good couple and why. I've discovered that guys only seems to get freaked out or run away if they don't feel the same way about you (it's the same with girls). So if he does freak out, then he doesn't feel the same way, if he doesn't, then he feels the same way.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (25 October 2009):
You can't. If he won't admit them, then maybe he just doesn't feel that way. Ultimately, there's only one way to deal with this and that's to talk to him. You need to tell him how you feel and see what he says. There is always a risk that it could ruin what you have, but sometimes you have to take a chance in life. Imagine if you don't, and he does like you but never says anything (he could be shy, after all). I think you should just go for it and see what happens. Be brave.
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