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anonymous
writes:i need some advice please.i recently come into contact with my ex after 4 years of not talking- i discovered he got married. ive always felt bad for the way we split even though it was both our faults. i was feeling low one night and sent an email pouring my heart out and instantly regretted it. when we've spoke hes always asked how i am etc but the time of his emails worry me theyre at one and two in the morning. i asked him to delete me because i couldnt be friends so now i havent heard again im wondering if thats it or will he contact me again
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2009): we all get low every now and then and yes i think most of us have sent a text/email or something and then regret it. theres no harm in it if your not expecting anything back BUT wondering if he is going to contact you again after you asking him to delete you.....? Don't fall into the trap.
Hes moved on and so should you - if he does email just delete it yourself, a married man should not be contacting/comforting his ex-girlfriends. take control of the situation. Good luck.
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reader, Markingbad +, writes (25 October 2009):
 You cannot delete an ex. I have tried it. It didnt work.
So are you going to ask a question or is that it ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2009): it sound like you needed to get things off your chest for closure and that's good for both of you ... if he hasn't contacted you for a few months then i think that will be it but if he does don't read it just delete it and that way nothing he has to say now will affect you
best luck
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reader, justme4me  +, writes (25 October 2009):
 I find it totally unecessary for you to grieve the way you do over someone who doesnt find you good enough for marriage.Sorry to say but that's the truth and i'd advice you just go on with you life and stop bothering about if he's gonna get back to you or not cos it doesnt make no sense.Free yourself so you can live your life and find your own happy man.Goodluck.
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