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writes:I have this best friend who i have known for quite a long time actually we're so close that it is like we're siblings,at first i thought that i just treated her as my friend and nothing more but now she has problems with her boyfriend who also happens to be my friend who treats her bad. she consoles with me about him and all her other problems and know i kinda realize that i actually have feelings for her, i wanna tell her that she deserves better than this and that i can give her the kind of relationship and love she deserves but i am friend that if i tell her and she doesn't feel the same the friendship might be broken, also keep in mind that her boyfriend is also my friend, what do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2009): Wait for the right time. Just be there for her, dont get involved even distance yourslef just a bit. When she moves out then you may slowly date but someone of cours will ge hurt. sont be a rebound. You can only ask her if she really wants to live like this unhappy. But a lot of the times gilrs just like to vent, bitch or complain but have no intention of ever leaving. So thye timing is not right. let it play out. And date yourself to see if she gets jealous but live your own life. Dont always be there for her. People like the hunt, and things they cant have.
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