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*endra0589
writes:I just feel like I will never find the a guy that knows how to treat me. As I posted before I met this guy that I really liked and he ended up being my first. After the sex he seemed to lose interest in me. He pretended like he wanted to be with me when all he really wanted was sex. It hurt me really bad because it makes me wonder are there any good men out here. Before I even had sex with my first I had met another guy that I thought was a nice decent guy but I guess he wasn't. We haven't talked in weeks and I finally get a text from him asking me to come over and have sex. I replied "why can't we just talk?" He said he didn't feel like talking. I'm already trying to get over the guy that was my first and now he's portraying the same ways. I want a guy that likes me for me and not sex. I've been so patient but now I just feel like giving up and acccepting the fact that I may never truly meet anyone worthwhile.
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reader, nickaust1971  +, writes (26 October 2009):
Dont give up you will find a nice guy one day....Im a nice guy and had 2 long relationships in my 37years of life. Im going through a bad time now but I will get through it. But as far as nice guys come into this the best thing to do is not to look for a good guy he will come into your life when you dont even know and when you find one you will love him as he will love you for you...
Good luck and dont give up....
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (25 October 2009):
Yes, there is. :). Read Gina's point below, that sums it all up. Good luck.
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