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writes:My best friend is going out with a boy I've liked for 2 years and its very awkward to be around. He would say he loves me in proper behind her back once and again and I don't know how to re-act to this. Any advice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2009): I agree that it is tough that you liked him for two years prior to them dating (which seems a little strange that your best friend would date him if you liked him for so long), but unfortunately the fact is that she is dating him so if she really is your best friend, you got to look out for her first and put your feelings aside for right now...
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2009): You say you like him. I understand that. But it's not the only thing in play here. What is important is that he sounds like a loser. What decent man will say he loves you when he's involved with your best friend? We all fall for losers occasionally. If you are stopping to think about it you are already in a place where you can say 'no' to this. Immediately, the only thing to do is to tell him that it is not okay to says this to you. And discourage it. After that, depending on what he does, you can decide your next step. Either it'll make him stop saying this (meaning he was not serious about it) or it'll get him to think carefully about what he wants from you and from your best friend. If he just continues without distancing himself from your friend he's bad news.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2009): Tell your best friend!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice but its awkward if you were in my position as I've liked him for 2 years now ?
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reader, roxyrex +, writes (25 October 2009):
 Say he has to dump your bf and dont go out with him!
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reader, Shiny Moon  +, writes (25 October 2009):
Start ignoring him if he still does it then u warn him about the consequences he wil be facing if u let her know about this.
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