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Why is he waiting for his ex to agree with the break-up before he can be with me?

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Question - (29 May 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 29 May 2009)
A female Singapore age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I been dating this guy and he promised to make our relationship official as Boy and girl friend relationship once he have settled with his ex gf.

He mentioned break up with his gf and is not picking her call up, but his gf keep on calling his house number and threaten him with a lot of things . Like dying in front of him, making a scene at his house, posting photos of him ..

He been dragging to make our relationship official because he feel that he need to wait for his ex to calm down first.

I know I am stupid, but I been waiting for the so called "calm down" process for his gf ... for about 6 months. and till now .. its still stuck at the same situation.

I dunno if he really loves me. I dunno what he is afraid of. Breaking up just need one parties to do so .. isn;t it so . why must he wait for his ex gf to agree for the break up before he can be with me ?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2009):

He should be decisive and make up his mind already. If she wants to threaten him and all that stuff then obviously they shouldn't be together. How is that even a relationship.

Six months is more than enough time babe, either he makes a decision or you move on. Unless U wanna wait for this guy for nothing to happen. To be honest this guy sounds like a waste of time but well thats just my opinion.

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