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writes:Okay basically.A guy who's friends with some of my friends added me on facebook about 3 weeks ago and we started talking and got along great. 6 days ago we decided to meet up with two of our other friends (this was mine and his first time meeting) and we had a great time. 3 days ago me and him met up just by ourselves on sort of a date, and he asked me out and I said yes. At first I really liked him, but even though we've only been going out for 3 days, my feelings for him are gradually changing. I don't feel as strongly as I did before and soon enough I'm pretty certain I won't feel anything for him anymore. He keeps telling me he loves me so much and never wants to lose me, and I feel really bad because I just don't know if I feel the same anymore. I'd feel awful letting him down, but I really don't know what to do.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (29 May 2009):
 Well no wonder you're feeling things start to fade. He's pushing you away!! He is coming on REALLY strong, you've only been together 3 days and he's talking about being in love and staying together forever? WHOA!
I would tell him that you need to slow WAAAYYYY down or just break things off entirely. This guy seems pretty overwhelming.
Good luck!! And don't worry if he cries, he seems like a mushy type. Just do what you need to do!
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